This month, we’re thrilled to spotlight the Armstrong family and their journey with Autism ETC. Declan and Conner, sons of Stephanie and James Armstrong, have been part of our community in Murfreesboro since May 2023, having previously attended our Music Valley Nashville clinic.

A Journey of Early Recognition

Declan, the elder brother, was diagnosed with autism in May 2022. Stephanie recalled her initial concerns, saying, “I kept questioning if he had a hearing loss since he would not look at me or respond when I talked to him.” Following their pediatrician’s referral to Vanderbilt, Declan was diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder and began speech and occupational therapy, with a recommendation to explore ABA therapy.

Stephanie’s friend suggested Autism ETC, and by July 2023, Declan joined our day therapy program part-time. Around this time, the Armstrongs began noticing delays in Conner’s development as well. Although he had started talking and recognizing shapes and numbers, his progress plateaued. With Declan’s diagnosis as a reference point, James thought, “Surely this could not happen again.” However, Conner’s pediatrician recommended an autism evaluation, which confirmed his diagnosis in December 2023.

Conner, described as more high-functioning than his brother, began ABA therapy in January 2024. The opening of our Murfreesboro clinic allowed both boys to transfer and attend the day therapy program full-time.

Significant Progress

Over the past year, Stephanie and James have witnessed remarkable progress in both boys.

“Declan had issues with escaping,” Stephanie shared. “Now, he stays with us or holds our hands in public places.” James highlighted Declan’s advances in communication, math, and even reading, saying, “He has gone from staring blankly to being able to communicate. He is a completely different kid.”

Conner, too, has made strides, particularly in safety awareness and potty training. Stephanie noted, “He’s no longer climbing on unsafe apparatus and can identify various things now.”

Both boys initially struggled with temper issues, but significant improvement in Declan, has brought hope that Conner will follow suit.

Words of Encouragement

The Armstrongs offer invaluable advice for families navigating similar paths.

“Autism is not a death sentence,” James said. “As hard as it’s been for us, we know it could be worse. It’s challenging as parents, but harder for our sons. Do what’s right for them, that’s what matters.”

Stephanie emphasized the importance of trusting the process and open communication with therapists: “Your child won’t improve unless you put energy into it. Be honest and engage with the parent training.”

Patience is another key takeaway. “Even when you don’t see progress right away, it doesn’t mean it’s not happening,” James reminded.

Preparing for the Future

As the Armstrongs prepare to relocate to Knoxville, Tennessee, in June, they reflect on the transformative role Autism ETC has played in their sons’ lives. Stephanie shared, “Autism ETC has helped Declan develop functional communication, peer interaction, and social skills—skills he’ll need to transition into school. We’re focused on ensuring both boys continue receiving the support they need.”

Declan and Conner’s story highlights the power of early intervention, dedicated therapy, and a family’s unwavering commitment to their children’s future. We’re honored to have been part of their journey and look forward to seeing what they achieve next!